Love and be loved

What do you think is the problem with any relation ???!!!

I am more puzzled than you could...

Not because I dont know the reason, its just that I am finding it hard to pick the right one and blame it on the other.. Might be this could itself be the reason behind the problem, where one wants to keep thier hand always clean n pure and make the other guilty..
Lack of mutual obligation, in short.

I really dont know what my likes and dislikes are.. What suits me and what doesn't suit me.. Always having the third eye to judge and choose, doesn't help when it is only you on the ground to play the game of life..
Absence of self-realization, in short..

Mom is the epitome of goodness to me.. But when I forget to see her with the eyes of a child, I have this gut feeling that she never knows the outside world, she is never aware of the seasonal trends, and so I judge her to be dumb.. Is that the case?? Never.. Needless to mention the dignity of motherhood, but just because she is not in sync with the so called next-gen and not in pace with the moving trend, she cannot be cornered..
Learn to repect, in short.

How many of us realize the value of a sibling.. Brothers are not just there to help solve your mathematics problems.. Sisters are not just there to suggest your looks and dressings.. There are things much more than that.. From them you learn the virtue of caring, the virtue the giving, the virtue of sharing and at times the virtue of fighting for your share too :)
Bond with pure love, in short.

Affection needn't come only with blood relations.. Its a mysterious chemistry that you share with your friends, you are ready to lose for thier success, sacrifice for thier joy, spend your time with them not bothering any benefit out of it.. It simply makes you feel alive when they are around you.. Androgens and estrogens can be misplaced in this century, and genes doesn't or shouldn't have to prevent you from sharing that true relationship.. A closed mind is a good thing to lose.
Learn to share an unbiased friendship, in short.

We all often forget that the other person too has something called sixth sense (thanks to Night Shyamalan for atleast reminding the word to me..) and impose our thoughts on them.. Would the world still make any difference to us, if we want everyone to be as we are... Then where would the craftmanship of nature go???
Limit your freedom to ur partner's nasal tip, in short.

Respect the individuality and love the uniqueness. Each one is different from the other and got to be so.. Love and be loved.